DR.R.V.PATHY AYURVEDA

“It’s not about age. It’s about alignment, readiness, and emotional courage.” 🌿 Let’s Begin with a Truth You’re doing great. You’ve studied hard, built a career, and created independence. But somewhere deep inside… there’s confusion. Marriage? “I’ll think about it later.” “I’m not ready.” “Let me settle first.” “What if I choose wrong?” You’re not alone. Today’s generation — both men and women — are delaying marriage more than ever. But is that delay helping us — or hurting us silently? 💡 Why Are We Really Delaying Marriage? Most young people (especially in business, medicine, IT) say things like: “I want to be financially independent first.” “I’m scared of adjusting to another person.” “What if I marry the wrong one?” “I’ve seen too many failed marriages.” “Let me achieve more before settling.” These thoughts are valid. But they also come from fear, comparison, and emotional wounds — not clarity. 💭 The Unseen Impact of Delaying Marriage Let’s walk through the real-life consequences...

🌼  The Pain We Don't Talk About Friendship is often celebrated in selfies, stories, and parties. But beyond the filters lies a reality many silently live with: Being excluded from groups, Being judged by someone who once knew your heart, Being forgotten after doing so much for someone… This blog is a journey through the emotional impact of unhealthy friendships, from childhood through college. Whether you are a parent, teacher, or student — this insight is for every soul who has felt alone in a crowd. 👶 Ages 0–5: Learning to Trust Even toddlers feel when they're not chosen for play. If adults or peers show favoritism or rejection — they silently internalize it. 🧠 Effects: Seeds of self-doubt and comparison. Emotional patterns of pleasing or withdrawing begin. 🌿 Ayurvedic note: This is the Kapha age — strong impressions form. Children need emotional nourishment. 🧒 Ages 6–12: Innocence Meets Exclusion This is the age of school groups, best friends, and birthday invites. 💔 H...

🌸  A Silent Epidemic In today’s fast-moving, emotionally intense world, many school and college-going boys and girls go through experiences that feel like love but often end in deep emotional wounds. They are left with scars from betrayal, blackmail, toxic relationships, and emotional abandonment—issues that are rarely talked about but silently affect their mental health, academic performance, and self-worth. This blog is for every young heart that once loved purely, got hurt deeply, and still wakes up trying to smile. 🧠 Psychological Impact of Teenage Betrayal & Toxic Relationships 1. Broken Trust & Fear of Love When a person you trust cheats or doesn’t stand up for you, it creates a lasting fear of relationships. It becomes hard to open up to anyone again. 2. Anxiety & Overthinking Constantly replaying what went wrong Worrying if future love will also hurt Overthinking every word or move 3. Depression or Emotional Numbness Some may stop feeling anything—choosing to ...

 Hi subha here ,  why i have endup here is , i have met someone and they said we have to earn and we have to spend that is life . it is not like that , i need to clarify them there is lot more to know  psychology behind money .Here we are going to see about how to organize money , how to use credit and even how to save and invest our money  and even about how to save and invest for our future Path to financial security It means ability to the households to manage the ongoing economic needs and to prepare for the future. Things we cant control - economic environment  Lets start off thinking about cash and credit management ,  we want to make sure that we have the right amount of money left over to preserve liquidity, liquidity represents the amount of cash on the hand, available cash to us, we want to be efficient in our use of financial services, this means using right mix of bank accounts - having right insurance products, so that we have the protections a...

" Stop using your energy to worry. use your energy to believe, create, love, grow, glow, manifest and heal"  hello all subha here... how are you? my dear readers .., some of us all faced lots of mental disturbing problems right ..this past may doom the future . it affect the present living life . recovering from a significant emotional loss is not an easy task. taking the action that lead to recovery will require your attention, open mindedness , willingness, courage.  Grief definition Grief is the normal and natural reaction to significant emotional loss of any kind. Grief is the conflicting feeling caused by the end of or change in a familiar pattern of behavior. Grief is the feeling of reaching out for someone who has always been there , only to find when you need them again, they are no longer there. Grief is individual and unique . there are no stages. grief can not be neatly categorized. Typical responses associated with grief Reduced concentration A sense of n...

           The primary mistake that person make is  not considering how the mind function. they thus become trapped by thoughts, mood, and feelings that are transitory. they pass through the field of conscious awareness in a continuous flow. one thing is certain about mental function -- it is always changing            In the ayurvedic sense mind comprises thinking, intellectual reasoning, memory, emotion and feelings. it is interesting to note that the emotion and feelings are consider so intrinsic to mental function they are not classified as being separate from the working of mind. why is this ?          What is it that perceives the emotion or feelings? When you say, ''I am depressed '' what is it that becomes aware of this state?          when you say '' i feel sad '' or i feel bad'' what is it that contains awareness of these passing state ? some process occurs that n...